Why?

Why is it just so hard sometimes? The past 2-3 weeks, I just watched my 2 close friends go through a hard break up when everyone thought they were going to last forever. It was really sad to read their statuses they put up about each other on Facebook honestly, but I was kind of mad about it too. My reason why I was mad was because they were just venting out their emotions and feelings while not talking to people. They know that there's people out there willing to listen to them yet they still don't talk to those people. Isn't it better to have someone listen to you then letting people just scroll past your post? I know that you guys were really close and that it was hard to take the break up, but know that there's people looking out for you and willing to listen to you. I know that this is cliche but, don't keep things to yourself but let it out and let people know how you feel.